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Derin's Mom

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Wow! what a great environment we have here. Thank you Noodles and than you Eligus, you are such an open character.

Yes Derin will learn through this process and definetely she has¬†already. But more important; I am as well learning. I admit that she is growing and she has her own choices to make ahead of her. She is a good dance and she is very determinate to continue doing this on a proffessional level. But, she needs the time to grow more with her family; which is actually a great thing for us as well ūüôā

Noodles she continues her education here in Istanbul, though this covis period is a difficulty on its own. The conservatoire is closed to face to face lessons, so everything is online at home. But this period has let her focus on her weaknesses and she built a schedule to develop them.

So... all is good. We are open for new experiences ahead, whenever SHE is ready.

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I am glad to hear that you all are doing well. 

It is experiences like these that will color the fabric of her life and add nuances to her personality. In the end nearly all experiences, both good and bad, can lead to growth and can have a positive outcome if handled correctly. Kudos to you Derin's Mom, I look forward to following your DD's story.

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On 9/9/2020 at 2:48 PM, Noodles said:

I am glad to hear that you all are doing well. 

It is experiences like these that will color the fabric of her life and add nuances to her personality. In the end nearly all experiences, both good and bad, can lead to growth and can have a positive outcome if handled correctly. Kudos to you Derin's Mom, I look forward to following your DD's story.

Our journey is continuing. This time she is much more at ease and happy in Amsterdam. NBA. It has been only a week but she adjusted all fine into the city and environment.

We understand that there is always a correct timing and place. But in order to ease the past trauma, she had professional consultancy during these 2 years back as well.

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That is wonderful to hear.¬† I am so thankful to this Board for giving all of us a chance to connect with others and to share life experiences.¬† In my opinion, it is a truly great use of the internet, made possible by the time and volunteering of the moderators who keep us all focused.¬†ūüėȬ†

Congratulations, Derin'sMom, on being the kind of parent who invests in personal growth for themselves and their children.  It is heartening to all of us to hear about struggles that have led to growth, so thank you for following up on this post and letting us know. 

I wish your DD continued adventurous spirit to discover her own path!

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19 hours ago, Eligus said:

That is wonderful to hear.¬† I am so thankful to this Board for giving all of us a chance to connect with others and to share life experiences.¬† In my opinion, it is a truly great use of the internet, made possible by the time and volunteering of the moderators who keep us all focused.¬†ūüėȬ†

Congratulations, Derin'sMom, on being the kind of parent who invests in personal growth for themselves and their children.  It is heartening to all of us to hear about struggles that have led to growth, so thank you for following up on this post and letting us know. 

I wish your DD continued adventurous spirit to discover her own path!

thank you for the kind words

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